Ep 113 | Finding Safety in Your Body: Robyn Parets on Healing through Nervous System Regulation

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For more than 20 years, Robyn Parets lived with chronic illness, anxiety, and a body that always seemed to be fighting something. She saw countless practitioners, tried everything she could find, and kept pushing through — the way high-achieving women do. What she did not understand was that underneath every diagnosis, every symptom, and every exhausting flare was a nervous system that had simply lost its way home.

It was not until she discovered nervous system regulation and somatic breathwork that everything began to shift. Her body remembered what safety felt like. And from that place of safety, real healing became possible.

In this installment of the Return to Her series, Gabriella sits down with Robyn Parets, yoga teacher, breathwork facilitator, and nervous system coach, for one of the most personal and practically rich conversations in this series. Robyn shares what 20-plus years of survival mode actually felt like in her body, the moment on the floor after a treadmill collapse that changed everything, and the two things that finally moved the needle after decades of searching. She also guides listeners through a simple breathwork practice they can begin using today.

Robyn Parets is a yoga teacher, somatic breathwork facilitator, and nervous system coach who helps others find their way back to safety, regulation, and aliveness after years of chronic stress, illness, and dysregulation. After more than two decades navigating chronic illness including POTS, Lyme disease, SIBO, and mold toxicity, Robyn found her healing through brain retraining and somatic breathwork and now guides others through the same journey. She and Gabriella met at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York, during an intensive nervous system training. 

Highlights from our discussion include:

• What 20 years of living in a dysregulated state actually felt like in Robyn's body and how she finally recognized it as survival mode

• The treadmill moment that became her turning point and why she knew on the floor that she was the only one who could heal herself

• How brain retraining works and why repetition is the key to creating new patterns in the brain and nervous system

• Why feeling safe in the body is not just an emotional experience but a physiological prerequisite for healing

• The physiological sigh, a simple two-breath practice that tones the vagus nerve and helps bring the nervous system back to safety in minutes

• What life looks and feels like on the other side — from black and white to technicolor 

When Gabriella asked Robyn what she would say to the version of herself who was still searching for answers and still pushing through, her answer was short and completely whole.

You are brave. And you can do hard things. And the power exists within you to make the changes you need.

That is the heart of this series. And it is the heart of this conversation.

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